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As a former professional dancer (modern, with ballet training) I will add that women have more knee and shoulder injuries than men. I wonder if any of these studies covered injuries in women. Because we must be flexible in the birth process, women are more flexible in almost all joints, with a larger range of flexibility, in general, than men, yogis notwithstanding.

As a trans widow, I can tell you that my former husband was insanely jealous of my flexibility and my female hip-to-shoulder ratio. He hated his own large hands and feet, a typical obsession of men with this psychiatric illness of body dissociation with an obsessive sexual component.

He's also obsessed with doing martial arts and defending himself, claiming the false statistics on "vulnerable" cross-dressers being attacked (women like me are attacked far more than cross-dressing men, who are perceived as men, perceived as figures who will fight back) He spars on a women's team and although he's under 6 ft tall, he's a formidable and wiley opponent, I know from our joking "wrestling" during the marriage.

Women must be aware that trying to lift as heavy or have the speed of men can cause injuries. For a window into healthy mind/body work (designed by me, a medium sized woman, I'd like to know the male reaction) here's a short clip from Ute Heggen youtube channel, where trans widows' recovery from the trauma is the theme:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gnlaASFJkh0&t=83s

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cara's avatar

thank you for your well researched and presented article. it really shouldn't need to even be said. but in these insane times it needs to be. it's obvious and necessary. and it's a good thing. men and women are different.

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